Rebuild my friend group (重建我的朋友圈)
1. The reason (起因)
I thought people should have something else to do in their life instead of play games all day and all night.
If they do research for a game, that's OK. If they want to get an unreal experience, that's also OK. But if they want to do competition with someone from the game, it's unacceptable. Because life itself is a competition.
I think those extremely talented people won't waste their time at games. They have their own job to do. But for those people who want to run away from reality, they are taking the game as everything to them. It shows the weakness of them.
As I said, I don't think the president plays games, big businessman plays games, crazy scientist plays games. So if I want to be a top person, I'd better stop play games too.
And I don't want to hurt anybody's feelings. I want to be good and motivated, meanwhile, get motivations from others. But as you know, those people who play games. They'll feel bad about you. Because they don't wanna get better at anything. They just want to be normal, be ordinary. You'll hurt their feelings by being motivated and making progress.
That's why I need a new friend group.
我一点都不关心别人的价值观，我只知道每天没有其他事情要忙，只能打游戏的人都是垃圾。
主席打游戏吗？
总统打游戏吗？
马云(大商人)打游戏吗？
总统打游戏吗？
马云(大商人)打游戏吗？
要想成为 Top Person，不玩游戏是必要的。特别是不玩“竞争性游戏”，因为生活本身就是竞争。
有人对我说“不要以自己的想法来要求别人，每个人都有自己追求的生活，自己的幸福生活”，我回答道“所以我要构建新的圈子，然后散发动力与接受动力，这样才不会打扰那些沉睡的人”。
2. The action (我做了什么)
I just asked all my friends whether they often play Violent Competitive Games or not. Then I save that information to my Excel tables.
After that, I deleted all those people who addicted to that kind of game or refused to reply to me.
I do it, first, it is to remove non-motivated people, second, it is to remove those people who don't want to talk with me.
让我们来做一个结构优化：
“近1年内玩过王者荣耀或任意暴力竞争性游戏的，一律删除好友，不讲情面”
Step1, 询问好友们是否玩王者荣耀、PUBG，做记录，玩的在一个名单，不玩的在另一个名单 (提问方式为“你玩王者荣耀、英雄联盟或者吃鸡战场吗？”，回答为“没事，我就问问，帮人做一下调查”或者“可以，这个回答我很满意！”，并以“调查结束，感谢您的配合”结尾；注意分离小学、初中、高中、大学、网络好友，我想看看不同阶段认识的人的玩游戏比例)
“近1年内玩过王者荣耀或任意暴力竞争性游戏的，一律删除好友，不讲情面”
Step1, 询问好友们是否玩王者荣耀、PUBG，做记录，玩的在一个名单，不玩的在另一个名单 (提问方式为“你玩王者荣耀、英雄联盟或者吃鸡战场吗？”，回答为“没事，我就问问，帮人做一下调查”或者“可以，这个回答我很满意！”，并以“调查结束，感谢您的配合”结尾；注意分离小学、初中、高中、大学、网络好友，我想看看不同阶段认识的人的玩游戏比例)
Step2, 空间设置为最近一条可见、QQ好友可见，发布本条消息
Step3, 三天后，逐个删除玩过暴力竞争性游戏的好友，并把自己的签名改成“我不和玩王者荣耀的人做朋友” (注意备份旧有签名)
Step4, Enjoy the new friend group
Step3, 三天后，逐个删除玩过暴力竞争性游戏的好友，并把自己的签名改成“我不和玩王者荣耀的人做朋友” (注意备份旧有签名)
Step4, Enjoy the new friend group
实际上，我的做法是，把不回答的直接删除联系人。因为他都不在乎你，不想和你说话，你要他干嘛？
然后不让玩游戏的人访问我的QQ空间。因为他们不上进。
3. The analysis (数据分析)
Primary School: 23% play, 29% not, 47% no answer
Junior Middle School: 25% play, 35% not, 39% no answer
High School: 33% play, 37% not, 29% no answer
High School for people who failed at university entrance exam: 18% play, 45% not, 36% no answer
University: 64% play, 18% not, 16% no answer
Internet Friends: 18% play, 68% not, 12% no answer
The more failure they feel, the more motivated they are. But for those people who don't think they are a failure, they are still stupid and normal.
越是觉得自己很失败的人，越是非常有动力，能控制住自己不玩游戏。而对于那些考上好大学或纯粹愚蠢意识不到自己的失败的人，他们觉得自己很成功，所以会玩游戏。